If you are trying to spice up your marriage and you ask your husband what he craves in bed, he might take it as you trying to psychoanalyze him. I told a friend this once, and she confirmed she had the same experience. The truth is, many men are not very expressive about their desires, …
I am not against love or being sacrificial for your partner. Not at all. However, because in the name of love, so many women have lost themselves, and it is so sad to see. And love is not foolish. Women just tend to lose themselves because they are loving, hopeful, and committed. It can also …
When people hear the phrase a good man, the first thing that comes to mind is the textbook definition of a good man. The version that sounds correct and checks the obvious boxes. He provides, does not cheat, is God-fearing, and is responsible. But goodness in a marriage is rarely revealed through labels. It shows up …
I titled this weird things men find attractive in women not because attraction itself is strange. Attraction is actually very ordinary. What makes it feel weird is how often people try to explain it with logic, rules, and checklists. It is just not as logical as people paint it to be. People, and for the …
Looking cheap has nothing to do with how much money you actually have. I’ve seen women with limited budgets carry themselves with so much class that you’d never question their value. And I’ve seen women with money make choices that immediately cheapen how they’re perceived. And sometimes, the smallest decisions communicate the loudest messages. 9 …
Not all faithful men look the same, but they sound remarkably similar. Cheating doesn’t always announce itself with obvious signs. Sometimes the best indicator of fidelity is what a man says when he doesn’t think you’re paying attention. A man who will stay faithful doesn’t just avoid cheating. He thinks differently about it entirely. And …
A marriage does not end the day the husband and wife stop living together or the day the court dissolves the marriage. In fact, most marriages end way before the final thing everyone sees. As a wife, if your husband has given up on your marriage, these are things he’d say: If Your Husband Says …
Affairs do not always start with sex. Many of them start with language. Long before a woman finds proof on a phone or feels it in her body, she often hears it in his tone. This post is about recognizing when the emotional center of a marriage has shifted somewhere else. If Your Husband Says …
You are complaining that your wife doesn’t initiate in the bedroom anymore. That she’s “let herself go”. She used to be so passionate, and now she acts like intimacy is a chore. And you are frustrated and feeling rejected, wondering what happened to the woman you married. The question you should be asking is why? …
What if I told you that you could see the cheating coming before it even happens? That there are signs that he will not be faithful to you. Most women ignore these red flags because they’re in love. But your gut already knows, you just need permission to trust it. So let’s talk about the …