My roommate once had a boyfriend who suddenly lost interest in her after two months of dating.
A man who before then was all over her and visibly very attracted to her suddenly became nonchalant and could not care less about her.
The few weeks before she eventually ended the relationship with him were sad for her.
She was miserable, especially when she learned another woman was responsible for his behaviour.
He had met someone.
If you are in a situation where you suspect that your boyfriend is no longer attracted to you, you may be scared that your relationship is gradually coming to an end.
Although attraction is not all there is in a relationship, it is a very important part of every relationship, and the absence of it can leave the relationship in a bad state.
But before you begin nursing fears about your relationship, you must first make sure you are right about your boyfriend not being attracted to you.
The signs below will help you confirm that your boyfriend is not attracted to you.
10 Pathetic Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Attracted To You
1. He Never Compliments You
A classical sign that your boyfriend is not attracted to you is that he never compliments you.
Men are drawn by what they see and don’t often fail to say it.
When a man is attracted to his woman, he is very likely to tell her at every chance he gets.
Constant compliments are proof that a man is physically attracted to his woman.
If your man does not compliment your look, it is a sign that he is not attracted to you.
It is also important to understand that your man is not meant to compliment you only when you look your best.
He is also meant to tell you how great and amazing you are and look, even when you look basic and normal.
2. Your Boyfriend Does Not Want To Hang Out With You
Another sign that your boyfriend is not attracted to you is that he never wants to hang out with you.
Men love to flaunt their women and show them off.
A man, especially one who loves to go out or hang out with friends, will always want to hang out with his woman.
He will want to show her off and flaunt her to everyone who cares to look.
However, when the man is not attracted to the woman, he will not want to hang out with her.
You may notice him avoiding outings or events when you both have to go together.
3. He Tells You
Sometimes, you may not need signs to know that your boyfriend is not attracted to you because he tells you himself.
He may have said it passively or as a joke.
You probably thought he did not mean it or was only kidding.
But chances are very high that he meant what he said.
His behaviour may buttress his words, or it may not.
But no matter what he does or does not do, if he has told you directly or indirectly that he is not attracted to you, your better take that seriously.
5. His Efforts In the Relationship Reduce
Another way to know that your boyfriend is not attracted to you is that he no longer puts effort into the relationship.
His passion and zeal to make things work and make you happy reduce drastically.
When he no longer finds you attractive, he sees no need to pursue you further, so he relaxes.
6. Your Boyfriend Now Treats You Like A Friend
When physical attraction exits, your boyfriend will begin to act formally and cordially with you.
He no longer uses sweet and endearing terms and calls you nice names.
You may notice that he calls you by your name and relates with you like he would a casual roommate or a platonic friend.
7. He Makes Unpleasant Comments About Your Body
When the physical attraction is gone, he may start to make comments about your body that are unwelcome and uncomfortable.
He may criticise you for how you dress or how much weight you have gained or lost.
Your body may have undergone some changes recently, and while battling with your self-esteem, your boyfriend makes an unpleasant comment about your body.
This can be very hurtful.
However, his words are a reflection of how he feels about you.
Unfortunately and sadly, it tells you he is not attracted to you anymore.
8. You Fight More
Another thing you may notice that points to the fact that your boyfriend is no longer attracted to you is that his fights with you become more frequent.
The number of times you fight increases, and the intensity of the fight too.
You may have been wondering why.
Well, now you know.
9. He Gets Upset Easily
Your boyfriend getting angry at you for the tiniest things can be a sign that his attraction to you has declined.
He is likely to be more patient and forgiving to you when physical attraction is present.
Your flaws and mistakes are easily overlooked.
But when he does not find you attractive, everything you do pisses him off.
He may even begin to find some things you do irritating.
10. Your Partner Is Spending More Time Apart From You.
Lastly, you can confirm your boyfriend’s lack of attraction to you by where he chooses to spend his time.
If he is attracted to you, he will want to spend more and more time with you.
The quality time you spend with each other will increase.
But if he is not attracted to you, you will notice he begins to spend more apart from you.
Final Words.
Confirming that your boyfriend is not attracted to you can be a devastating discovery.
You may feel all forms of negative feelings and suffer low self-esteem.
It is important to note that it is usually not your fault.
You may try to upgrade your physical appearance, but there is no assurance that it will make his attraction for you come back.
Besides, if he comes back to you solely because of your appearance, you can not count on it because that is a superficial reason.
If you are in this situation, do not beat yourself up.
Rather, take the time to heal and focus on yourself.
I recommend that you have an open conversation with your boyfriend about it and decide if you both need to go your separate ways or if you can work it out.
Whatever you do, don’t settle for less.
Love yourself first and do things that make you happy.
Don’t let it cast a dark cloud over the beautiful sky that is your life.
You still have so much love and beauty ahead of you.
All the best.