11 SIGNS YOU ARE GOOD IN BED

I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you how important physical intimacy is in marriage.

Many studies confirm that couples with an active intimate life are generally more satisfied with their relationships.

If you’re wondering if you have what it takes to be satisfying in the bedroom, look no further than these signs that you may just be really good in bed:

11 SIGNS YOU ARE GOOD IN BED

1. Your partner is always coming back for more

This is perhaps the most obvious sign that you are good in bed.

If your partner always wants more, chances are you have been hitting the spot!

They say the more good you have it, the more you’ll want to have it.

So if your spouse frequently wants to get intimate with you, you must be doing something right.

 

2. Your partner compliments your moves

If your partner is constantly saying positive things about your bedroom routine, then it’s likely that you are good in bed.

They might tell you they love how you move or express how turned on they get when they’re with you.

These compliments show that you know what you’re doing and can give them pleasure.

This is why it’s important for couples to communicate in the bedroom and let each other know how well they are doing.

Don’t withhold your compliments for your partner.

Be generous with them.

 

3. You take initiative

Taking initiative in the bedroom can make all the difference.

It shows that you are confident and willing to try new things.

Being assertive in the bedroom demonstrates that you know what you’re doing and enjoy it too.

It’s also a great way to spice things up and keep things interesting for both of you.

If only one partner is initiating, it can create a feeling of imbalance and make the other person feel neglected.

In fact, things will get boring.

Show your partner you are just as willing to take charge; they will surely appreciate it.

Women are mostly guilty of this, as they are likelier to take a passive role in the bedroom.

Don’t always wait for your man to come to you; initiate sometimes and show him you’re not afraid to go after what you want.

It will make things more interesting and fun for both of you.

4. You’re good at reading your partner’s body

When you’re good at reading your partner’s body, you’re better able to identify when they’re aroused, uncomfortable, or in need of something else.

Doing this allows you to be more connected and intimate with them while getting it on.

If you want to do better in the bedroom, pay attention to your partner’s breathing, movements, and facial expressions.

They may not always be able to express what they want verbally, but their body will tell you what they desire.

 

5. You know how to take things slow and build up

 

Sometimes lovemaking can become repetitive and predictable, but you avoid that by taking things slow.

Instead of going straight to the main event, you take time to explore your partner’s body.

You start with sensual touching and kissing before getting into more provocative activities.

This kind of buildup makes the ultimate experience more intense and satisfying.

You also appreciate the journey rather than just focusing on the destination.

And showing your partner that you care enough to take it slowly makes them feel special and loved, and it’s why they always look forward to getting it on with you.

 

6. You understand that communication is key

Good lovemaking starts with good communication — both verbal and non-verbal.

You don’t just expect your partner to know what you like; you tell them.

And not only do you ask for feedback, but also respect it and use it to make the experience better for both of you.

You also understand that some things are best left unsaid.

Sometimes the right thing to do is just be present in the moment and let the energy flow through both of you.

 

7. You’re always up for trying new things

 

When it comes to physical intimacy, you never shy away from experimenting and trying new things.

It’s one of the reasons why your partner is always eager to get it on with you — because you’re never afraid to push boundaries and explore uncharted territories.

Whether it’s a new toy, position, or activity, you’re always open to suggestions and willing to try them.

This makes lovemaking an adventure in your marriage and keeps monotony at bay.

 

8. You don’t take things too seriously

You know that laughter is the best medicine for any situation, and you’re not afraid to joke to lighten things up.

Whether it’s a stressful day or a moment of awkwardness, your sense of humor helps you relax and enjoy yourself more.

This makes physical intimacy fun, playful, and enjoyable for you and your partner.

Because you’re never afraid to make a silly face or say something goofy to keep things lighthearted.

Also, it’s the perfect way to start foreplay.

Humor helps you break down barriers and remove inhibitions that prevent you from fully expressing yourself during the act.

And most importantly, it sets a tone of openness and comfort between you and your partner, making for amazing lovemaking.

 

9. You bring creativity and spontaneity into play

You’re not afraid to mix things up and go off-script in the bedroom.

You think of new positions, locations, or scenarios you and your partner can explore without feeling uncomfortable or embarrassed.

Physical intimacy in marriage can get really predictable, so spontaneity and creativity are key to keeping it exciting.

When you’re willing to go outside the box, there’s no limit to how much fun you can have in the bedroom.

It allows you and your partner to explore your deepest desires and fantasies without judgment.

If you know how to keep things interesting for your partner and they always look forward to your next surprise, you are good in bed!

10. You are open to learning to be better in bed

No matter how much experience you have, it’s important always to be open to learning new things.

Not only does it add to the spice of your relationship, but it also shows your partner that you care about their pleasure.

There’s always something new and exciting to learn, from different positions to sensual massages or reading up on facts.

You can even try joining a workshop or taking classes together to learn new techniques together.

Openness and willingness to learn are signs of how good you are in bed.

Because nothing is as frustrating as having a partner who thinks they know it all.

11. You treat your partner kindly

You may be wondering what being kind has to do with it, but it’s actually one of the most important aspects of being a good lover.

Being kind means not just in the bedroom but also outside of it.

It means listening to your partner and understanding their needs, respecting their boundaries, and showing them how much you care about them.

It doesn’t matter how impressive your bedroom skills are; it won’t matter if you don’t respect your partner in other aspects of the relationship, it won’t matter.

Being a good lover is so much more than just physical pleasure and satisfaction; it’s about connection, understanding, and caring for each other.

If you can relate to these eleven points, you are doing well.

And if you can’t, here’s an opportunity to learn and up your game.