Are there any signs your husband has a crush on another woman?
You may have noticed that your husband is acting differently.
There are other likely reasons for his actions, so there’s no cause for alarm.
However, if you can’t shake off the feeling that your husband’s strange behavior is because he has a crush on another woman.
You’re in luck because there are certain signs to look out for.
When you learn them, you’ll be at an advantage to know if your husband may be trying to cheat on you.
Check them out below;
9 Top Signs Your Husband Has A Crush On Another Woman
First, I’d like to establish that your husband cannot just wake up one day and start having a crush on a random lady or someone who is not in existence.
The woman he’ll crush on is someone he has dealings with or sees regularly.
It can be a neighbor, someone at the gym he goes to, or a work colleague.
With that in mind, you need to look out for these signs (at least some of them) because they’ll help you know if it’s a harmless friendship between your husband and the other woman or if he has a crush on her.
1. He’s giving the other woman a lot of attention
Your husband giving a lot of attention to the other woman is one of the most apparent signs that he has a crush on her.
Do you see him frequently talking with this particular lady in the neighborhood or his beautiful colleague at work?
It might be that he has a crush on her.
Except there’s a valid reason your husband is speaking with her regularly; it might just be that he’s making time to talk to her.
2. He hides his phone from you
Is he no longer comfortable with you operating his phone?
This was a norm in your marriage before – having free access to each other’s phones and other devices.
Suddenly, he begins to keep his phone away from you.
It’s more like he hides his phone from you.
And that’s because he has been texting and calling the other woman a lot lately.
He might not want you to go through their chats and see what they’re talking about.
Even if he isn’t using his phone at the moment and you ask for it, he’ll start getting on it immediately to prevent you from taking it.
That act alone signifies that something fishy is going on and is one of the signs your husband has a crush on another woman.
3. He’s no longer into you very much
One of the definite signs your husband has a crush on the other woman is that he’s no longer into you as he used to be.
Usually, it comes as a general feeling that he’s no longer as in love with you as before.
Although you may be unable to point to any specific event to back up your feelings, you feel a sudden decline in his romantic energy around you.
His passion and interest may be going somewhere else, and it may not be far from that lady he’s hanging around frequently.
4. He compares you to that woman
One of the most obvious signs your husband has a crush on another woman is that he compares you to her.
The moment he starts doing that, there’s a high chance that there’s more than meets the eyes with the relationship between them.
How do you know?
If he can’t stop making references to this woman and doesn’t fail to place your actions side by side with hers.
He may question your cooking skills, dress sense, or hairstyle preferences – things he had no problem with all these years, and say that the other woman does it better.
Expect these sorts of questions from him:
“Why don’t you like wearing hairstyles like the one on Lady XYZ?”
“Why don’t you cook like lady XYZ?”
“You should dress up more like lady XYZ. It looks good on her. It’ll look good on you.”
“I don’t think you handled this situation properly. If it were Lady XYZ, she’d have done better.”
And the list goes on.
Suddenly, your lifestyle, which he had no problems with for a long time, now has loopholes that he’s too uncomfortable with.
5. He talks about her a lot
Does your husband talk about this particular lady a lot?
I mean, a conversation doesn’t feel complete to him if he hasn’t brought her up in it.
It’s a sign that he has a crush on her.
When we’re having a crush on anyone, thoughts of them fill our minds, and we can’t help but talk glowingly about them.
Your husband can’t help himself.
It’s a clear sign that he is taking a liking to her.
6. He always wants to be around her
It takes a lot of willpower to hide a crush, and only a few people possess such willpower.
Your husband might not be among the few if he always wants to be wherever she is.
For instance, you’re about to hit the gym and ask him to accompany you even if he doesn’t want to work out, at least for some motivation while you work out.
He refuses and claims he’s too tired to go or has some work files that need his attention urgently.
You casually mention that Lady XYZ will be in the gym, and he suddenly transforms.
Watch him change into his gym costume in a flash and even be the one hurrying you not to be late to the gym.
What changed your reluctant husband to become so enthusiastic?
It was mentioning that the said lady would be at the location.
And that is a sign your husband has a crush on her.
7. His face lights up at the sight of her
Perhaps your husband is having a bad day, and nothing you’ve done seems to lift his mood.
Then she walks into the room, and it’s like a ray of sun hit him squarely in the face.
His face lights up with the brightest smiles that, if you weren’t there, you wouldn’t have believed he was having a bad day previously.
Can you relate to this scenario?
It’s one of the top signs your husband has a crush on another woman.
8. He tells you
They say the mouth speaks out of the abundance of the heart.
He might tell you directly or indirectly that he has a crush on the other woman.
Perhaps it slipped from his mouth, or he said it as a matter of fact.
Please take his word for it, especially if he has been exhibiting some or even all the other signs listed above.
It’s one of the surest signs that confirm that he has a crush on her.
9. You have a nagging feeling that there’s more between him and the other woman
You should know one thing about your instincts — they hardly ever lie.
Instincts mostly pick up things that the rational brain doesn’t.
So, you might be right if you keep having a nagging feeling that it’s more than just friendship between your husband and the other woman.
But what should you do when you can’t shake off this feeling?
I’ll advise you to be careful in your approach, especially if you have no evidence to support your claims.
Even if you have evidence, you need to be tactful with your approach because it may not go down well with him.
I mean, you’re accusing him of having feelings for the other woman.
You don’t expect him to own up easily if it’s true.
So, please do your due diligence and then broach the issue with him.
Conclusion
There are a lot of signs your husband has a crush on another woman.
The ones listed above are the top possible ones.
Note, however, that if your husband is exhibiting one or more of these signs, it doesn’t automatically mean he has a crush on another woman.
The best thing you should do is to note the signs and use them to make your findings.
See where they lead you to.
I wish you the best.
Cheers!