You must have heard that guys will say anything to get what they want– sex, most of the time.
I am a guy, and I can confirm that this is true for the most part.
However, the ability of playboys to say anything to get what they wanted is not as limitless as you may think
There are certain things a guy will only say to you when they are really into you.
If you are wondering if the guy who’s saying all these nice things to you truly means them, this article is for you.
I have taken the liberty of compiling things that guys only say when they are really into you in this article.
Some of them may look so normal until you really understand the intent behind the words.
Come along, let’s see if that guy is really into you like he claims.
10 Things Guys Will Say Only When They Are Into You
1. “Let me help you with that.”
Of all the five love languages expounded upon by Dr Gary Chapman, men excel the most at acts of service.
Many men may find it difficult to express their love for you verbally, and others may have such busy schedules that they may not be able to spend as much time with you as they want.
But, there is one thing all men love.
They want to feel needed by the woman they love.
When a guy is into you, he wants to feel helpful.
So, he offers to do things for you.
Men only want to do things for people they truly care about, or sometimes for a goal.
However, if a guy is offering his help to you so freely, it is a sign that he is really into you.
The problem most guys have is that females don’t view it that way.
For females, the best way to express your love is to do it verbally before going into the whole “acts of service” thingy.
If you do it the other way around, you may just find out that she thought that you were just being a good friend and thinks you are like a brother to her.
At least, this is what my friend was told recently by the girl he loves.
Helping a lady you love may be a great way to show that you love her, but you must never neglect to tell her how you feel.
2. “This reminded me of you.”
That thing that happens when you walk down the street and random things just start reminding you of that one person in your life…?
I am sure we have all experienced this at one point in our lives.
It just sounds so special when someone tells you that something reminded them of you even in your absence.
It makes you feel so loved.
It is even more special when it comes from a guy.
I know we all experience a lot of pressure and stress in life, but it can sometimes feel like the whole world rests on the shoulders of men.
We have a lot on our minds, and whenever a guy says, “This reminded me of you,” it is a sign that even through the hustle and bustle of the day, you are never far from his thoughts.
He thinks of you constantly and random things remind him of you.
When a guy tells you this constantly, you just have to realize that he is really into you.
3. “You are beautiful”
As generic as this may sound, this is another important that most guys say only when they are really into you.
Weird as it may sound, most guys prefer to admire beautiful ladies without telling them what they think about them.
I know this because I act the same way.
I could see a really attractive woman without even acting like I noticed her beauty, but there’s that one person who makes my jaw drop every time I see her.
When I see her face, there really is not a thing that I would change.
And I don’t keep this sentiment to myself.
I let her know how beautiful she looks.
My words and actions show how much I am truly into her.
When a guy is really into you, he compliments you and you can see the sincerity in his eyes.
Guys don’t really know how to hide it when they are into you.
Even when they try to hide it, it makes it even more evident.
The awkwardness after the compliment and then that additional statement that is meant to neutralize the compliment but somehow enhances it.
When a guy says all these, it is a sign that he is really into you.
4. “How are you?”
This is another question that has been made so generic yet still holds its share of unique charm when it is asked by someone who really cares.
When a guy is really into you, he really wants to know how you are.
He doesn’t just want to hear the generic response “Fine, thank you”.
He wants to really know.
So, if you are answering “Fine”, he wants to know that you are really fine and what is going on with you.
He also wants to know when you are not fine.
Not so he can tell you, “It is well”, but because he wants to proffer solutions.
He truly cares for you and he will show it through his interest in your welfare.
5. “What did you do today?”
A few months ago, some ladies were complaining on Twitter about talking stages where the guy keeps on asking questions like “What are you doing now?”, “How are you?”, and “Have you eaten?”.
I agree that a bunch of those conversations were boring.
But sometimes, conversations between the most in-love couple in the world could be boring.
When a guy is really into you, he shows real interest in you and what you do.
At the end of the day, he wants to know how your day went in detail.
It’s just part of being caring.
I felt that the ladies on Twitter were only complaining because they were not into the guys they were talking to.
And perhaps, the guys were not really interested in knowing what was happening in their lives.
Sometimes, it is just a way to keep the conversation going.
But… when a guy is really into you, it’s just so obvious to you that he wants to actually know you and it’s not just an attempt to keep the conversation flowing.
6. “I am upset/worried.”
For the most part, vulnerability doesn’t come naturally to males.
It is something that most males have been taught to unlearn as kids.
Relearning it in adulthood can be really tough.
When a guy is really into you, he begins to share his emotions with you.
It may start really slowly and with difficulty, but with time, it gets easier.
So, he tells you when he is upset and what made him upset.
He also tells you when he is worried that something is not going according to plan.
This ability to show his weakness to you is a sign that he is really into you.
He likes you and knows that you won’t judge him or use his vulnerability against him in the future.
7. “I notice you love doing this.”
We all have eyes but most of us are not really observant.
We are not attuned to our environment so much that we notice the slightest change in our environment.
However, when a guy is really into you, he becomes sensitive to everything you do.
He is very observant around you and it’s not even like it is a conscious decision.
I feel like the brain just unconsciously feels like …
“I know you are really into this lady so I will be extremely observant around her”.
He starts noticing things you do or love to do.
He notices things you don’t like.
He notices your peculiar physical gestures and their associated meaning.
When a guy tells you he is noticing things about you, it could be a sign that he is really into you.
8. “I got you something.”
One of the most common things a guy says when he is really into you is “I got you something”.
Giving gifts is one of the major ways guys express their love.
And it doesn’t need to be something expensive or flashy.
It could be just a thoughtful little gift.
Remember when I said that random things remind him of you?
Well, if those things can be bought, he sometimes buys them because he feels you would love them.
A novel by your favorite author, a card with lovely scenery, and a nice little message, flowers, or even chocolates.
9. “I miss you.”
Did he actually say he misses you?
Girl, you are just one lucky lady!
Guys don’t like to say such mushy stuff unless they are the sensitive, romantic types, and I can assure you that most men are not.
If he is telling you he misses you, it is a sign that he is really into you.
10. ” You can always talk to me.”
This is synonymous with “I will always be here to listen to you and help you”.
When a guy says this to you, it is a sign that beyond being into you, he is ready to be your ride or die.
He is telling you that he wants to play a part in your life and if he has a choice, he wants it to be a really active role.
Ultimately, whenever a guy is really into you, he says these things to you.
And they indicate that he cares about you and wants to play a vital role in your life.