There are things that seem right to be said and also fit the occasion perfectly when you’re being intimate with your spouse.
When spoken during intimacy, these words make the experience more arousing, sensual, and memorable.
It doesn’t matter whether they’re naughty or sweet; saying and hearing these words definitely makes sexual intimacy better.
Saying words during intimacy isn’t meant to be done by the man alone; the woman also has a role to play.
As much as a woman loves her man to reassure her of his love and how she’s the best thing that happened to him during intimacy, there are things men also want to hear during intimacy.
In this article, we’ll be talking about the things your husband wants to hear during intimacy.
It promises to be a fun and interesting read.
Let’s get started.
9 Things Your Husband Wants To Hear During Intimacy
1. “You feel so good inside me”
Your husband wants to know if you like how he feels when he’s inside you.
I think that’s one of the first things most men want to hear from their wives during sexual intercourse.
To a great extent, it sets the mood for how the rest of the session will go.
Telling him that he feels good inside you is more of a green light that he’s welcome to be part of you and a signal for him to continue what he’s doing.
It shows that you like the experience and don’t want it to stop.
It’s also his cue to fire away on all cylinders.
2. He wants you to say his name
There are men who love it when their spouse says their name during intimacy.
It could be their real names or a pet name that’s unique between them as a couple.
Besides, if his real name is too long or sounds archaic, it won’t really be pleasing to the ears when called out during intercourse.
I mean, you don’t expect ‘Bartholomew’ or ‘Zacchaeus’ (no offense intended to people who bear these names) to sound exactly sensual.
Well, except you settle for the short forms, which are ‘Barth’ and ‘Zach’.
Even at that, it’s more advisable to stick to just saying your husband’s pet name whenever you’re making out.
Whisper his name in your most sensual voice into his ears and watch him get more passionate with you.
You can also scream his name in pleasure when he’s hitting the right spots.
It’ll let him know that he’s doing something right and spur him to do more.
3. “Oh my God”
There’s no greater reassurance for your husband than knowing that he’s hitting the right spots and blowing your mind.
And that’s exactly what the phrase “Oh my God” is meant to achieve.
It might be simple, but it tells your husband everything he needs to know during lovemaking.
He’s doing amazing things to your body and blowing your mind so good that you have no other option than to involve God.
I tell you, it gives your man a big confidence boost to know that you think he’s the bomb in bed.
4. He wants to hear you make encouraging sounds
Another thing your husband wants to hear during intimacy is encouraging sounds from you.
You might not be the type of person who likes to talk during intimacy, but it’s fine.
There’s nothing wrong with it, but being completely silent during sex is not encouraging, and neither is it the way forward for a satisfying and fulfilling sexual experience.
You can substitute making encouraging sounds such as moaning, groaning, or gasping if you’re enjoying yourself.
It’s another way of communicating with your husband and letting him know that you’re enjoying the experience.
These sounds can also act as a form of positive reinforcement and give your husband the confidence to continue his actions.
So don’t be afraid to vocalize your pleasure and let your husband know just how much he’s turning you on.
5. “Please don’t stop”
One thing you shouldn’t forget when you’re being intimate with your husband is that it’s your show, and you call the shots.
If your husband isn’t selfish, he’ll be willing and ready to follow your instructions and play by your rules.
Of course, he isn’t selfish, which is why he wants to hear certain things from you during intimacy.
Sometimes, he doesn’t know at what pace to go, and whether he should keep going or if he should stop.
If you’re having fun and do not wish for it to end soon, let him know.
Tell him not to stop.
You can throw in some moans and name-whispering here and there for the effect that you’re enjoying yourself.
It’ll reassure him that he’s getting it right with your body and encourage him to keep going till you are fully satisfied.
6. Tell him how to handle you
Just like everything else in marriage, sex takes teamwork to be fulfilling and satisfying.
It truly takes two to tango.
Your husband might know the basics of lovemaking, but he’s not a mind reader to know exactly what you want at a particular time.
It’s up to you to open up and tell him how you want him to handle your body and make you feel.
If you want him to go harder, open your mouth and say, ‘Please go harder.’
Tell him to go faster or easier on you.
Like I mentioned earlier, it’s your show, Sis.
Own it, and don’t hold back from enjoying yourself to the fullest.
Be vocal about what you want, and you’re sure to get it.
At that moment, your wish is your husband’s command, and he’s ready and willing to serve you satisfactorily.
7. “I want more”
Everyone has a bit of ego, but it appears that the egos of men are unmatched.
They love it when you stroke their ego.
Your husband particularly wants to hear you say that you want more of him and the sexual experience.
When you say so, that’s you stroking his ego and telling him that he’s good; scratch that, he’s amazing in bed.
It’ll make him want to do more and please you more in bed.
That confession from you will add a spring to his steps and automatically increase his shoulder pads.
8. “Don’t cum yet”
When you say these words, you’re telling your husband that you love what he’s doing and don’t want it to end yet.
You want to enjoy it a little longer before it ends.
I don’t blame you, really.
After all, you’re legally authorized to have sex and enjoy yourself while at it.
It won’t be bad for you to make the most of it.
Saying these words will achieve two things.
The first one is that he’ll know that you’re enjoying the experience.
The second one is that it’ll make him want to cum.
He might try to delay it a little longer, but he won’t hold out for long.
The sex will get more intense, but expect it to come to an end soon.
9. “I’m gonna cum”
I don’t think that I’ve ever seen any man who doesn’t want to hear this particular statement from his wife during intimacy.
Not only does it tell him that he’s doing everything right to your body, it also reassures him that you’re getting the satisfaction that you deserve.
For men, that’s generally a huge boost to their ego.
Except he’s selfish, most men are concerned about and want their wives to reach orgasm during sexual intimacy.
There’s also a satisfaction they get from knowing that they are able to satisfy their wives.