Perhaps you saw the question, “Why do some guys never have a girlfriend?” and you wonder if it’s possible.
The truth is that there are so many guys out there who have never had a girlfriend.
They accompany their friends to see their partners and wonder when it’ll be them visiting their partners.
While some guys may act like it’s no big deal not to have a girlfriend yet, the majority of those in this bracket think that there’s something wrong with them.
And they sit back and wonder what they’re doing or did wrong.
If you’re such a guy, we’re here to help you.
Although we can’t exactly point out the precise reason(s) why you’re in this situation, we have some suggestions.
Outlined below are some of the general reasons why you never seem to get and hold the attention of any decent girl.
Why Do Some Guys Never Have A Girlfriend?: 11 Good Reasons
1. You lack confidence
When it comes to the things that attract women to men, confidence plays a huge role.
The confidence I refer to here doesn’t have much to do with looks or the amount of money in your pocket.
It’s the belief in yourself, your abilities, and your worth that matters.
Have you met guys who aren’t exactly handsome or rich but still have a way with women?
That’s because they have confidence.
If you don’t believe in yourself and your worth, chances are that no woman is going to put her trust in you, either.
Women can detect confidence like a shark can sense a drop of blood in an ocean.
If you lack self-confidence, they’ll see it right away.
And this can be very unappealing for some women.
You might be thinking what the big deal is about women not wanting to date men who lack self-confidence.
Well, not having self-confidence can also lead to other issues.
It can make a man more likely to be controlling or manipulative in order to feel better about themselves.
It can also make them more prone to jealousy and possessiveness.
So, it’s not the lack of confidence but what it can lead to.
2. You’re a shy person
There’s nothing wrong with being a shy person.
I mean, a lot of guys are shy, and no one uses it against them.
I used to be an extremely shy and timid person, but I’ve worked on myself.
Although I’m still a little shy. Lol.
It’s nothing like before, anyway.
As a guy who wants to date, being shy is something that you need to put aside when you want to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.
It doesn’t work for you while asking a girl out because you won’t even know what to say to the girl.
And acting clueless and without confidence around girls is a huge turn-off for them.
3. You don’t go on dates
How do you expect to get a girlfriend if you don’t go on dates with the girls you’re interested in?
The reason for your single-hood is crystal clear if you think that texting and chatting on social media is enough to keep a woman interested in you.
Going on dates is a very important part of starting up a relationship.
Therein lies the excitement, and it’s where the chemistry originates from.
4. You reveal too much about yourself
You’ll want to be a little mysterious when dealing with a woman because women love mystery.
There’ll be nothing more for her to look forward to and be excited about when you can’t stop yourself from giving her a full rundown of your life problems and family history in your first-ever conversation with her.
Tell me why she’ll still be eager to listen to whatever else you have to say.
5. You’re too selective
It can be that you have the problem of being too selective when it comes to the girls you want to get into a relationship with.
Perhaps your standards are too high, and that can be why you haven’t found the right person for you.
Just give up on love and relationships if you’re still thinking that there’s someone out there who is perfect and without flaws.
No such thing is real, dude.
There are a lot of imperfect but amazing women out there.
Stop waiting around for a figment of your imagination to come to life.
Things don’t work that way.
6. You provide only scanty information
While we talked about revealing too much earlier, it can also be that you’re not revealing enough, on the flip side.
Telling her just your name and what you do doesn’t cut it.
She doesn’t know your hobbies and what your life goals are.
These are some of the most important things a woman wants to know about you before they agree to become your girlfriend.
It’s in these important things that you find the similarities and dissimilarities between both of you.
The other less important details about you can wait till she agrees to become your lover.
7. You don’t know how to read signs
Perhaps you can’t even tell whether or not a woman is interested in you.
It’ll stop you from knowing when and when not to ask a lady out because you’ll be doing the wrong things at the wrong times.
Let me paint a clear picture for you.
You might take the green lights a lady is showing you as her being open for friendship, and you put her in the friend zone when she genuinely wants something more than friendship with you.
On the flip side, you see a girl who doesn’t like you and can’t seem to stand the sight of you and assume that she’s playing hard to get.
You go ahead to ask her out and get one of the worst rejections in the history of rejections.
You’ll recoil into your shell and keep on thinking that something is wrong with you hence your inability to get any woman to agree to be your girlfriend.
What’s wrong with you, young man, is your inability to read signs correctly.
A girl who is interested in you can be cheery and bright-eyed around you.
You can also ask your close female friends to give you tips on how to know when a girl is interested in you.
8. You don’t know what women like
Another reason why you’ve never had a girlfriend is that you’re oblivious to the things women like.
Being clueless is a valid reason that’s stopping you from getting a girlfriend.
Learning about the things women like will go a long way to help you get a girlfriend and be able to keep her.
9. You believe that girls don’t like you
You might be feeling insecure because you’ve never had a girlfriend, and just like that, you assume that girls don’t like you.
Moving around with such a mindset casts a dark bearing over you.
You’ll start acting antisocial and sad, and this time, not only girls you’re interested in, but every other person who doesn’t want to be associated with negative energy will stay far away from you.
10. You don’t know how to flirt
Are you lost on flirting?
Flirting is one of the quickest ways to let a girl know of your interest in her.
How will she even know that you like her in that manner if you don’t know how to flirt?
Apart from using it to notify a girl of your interest in her, you can use flirting to build chemistry when you eventually get her to be your girlfriend.
11. You’re a player
Perhaps you know how to get girls to sleep with you or go on dates with you, but none of them wants to be your girlfriend.
Why is this?
Are you a player?
Because that’s the top reason why this is happening to you.
No girl wants to be associated with a player.
Every girl wants the guy who is interested in her to think that she’s special and different from other girls.
Once girls think that you’re a player and you approach them, they think that you’re trying to take your chances with them.
Conclusion
Now that you’ve seen some of the reasons why you’ve never had a girlfriend, I hope you pick out the ones that apply to you and effect corrections.
Love is a beautiful thing that should be experienced by all and sundry.
I hope you find the right person for you in no distant time.
