Sometimes, it doesn’t take too much to captivate a woman.
The rizz you want to have may just be lying in your ability to exhibit certain playful acts here and there.
Women are not as complicated as they’re made to seem, and if you understand them and play your cards right, you have the keys to their hearts.
Today, I’ll be sharing with you some playful things that men do that women find irresistibly charming.
Whether you’re a man looking for these signs to use for your partner or a guy who just wants to be more charming overall, I’ve got you covered.
All you need to do is employ these tips.
13 Playful Things Men Do That Women Find Irresistibly Charming
1. Being funny
We all love people with a great sense of humor: men and women alike, but I’ll tell you for free that women love it more.
A man who can make a woman laugh already has a free pass into her heart.
If you needed ten points to get into her heart, your ability to make her laugh already gives you five.
A man who knows how to make funny jokes, tell humorous stories, or simply find humor in everyday situations can be very attractive.
Women are more likely to lean into those kinds of men.
I once saw a meme that said, “If a woman doesn’t find a man physically attractive but the man can make her laugh, he’ll still get the woman because she’ll be spending too much time closing her eyes in laughter to notice that he’s not her type physically.”
That meme was just for laughs.
It may not be true, but it does emphasize the fact that a sense of humor does make a man attractive to a woman.
But the thing about this is that having a sense of humor is usually innate and natural, only a few people can learn it and execute it effectively.
However, if you don’t have this talent and you don’t want to stand the risk of looking like a clown just to make her laugh, it’s okay, I still have some tricks for you.
2. Playful banter
You may not be able to tell a good joke, but playful banter is something you definitely can do.
Everyone can do it and when men do it to women, they find it super attractive.
What this simply means is to engage in lighthearted teasing or witty exchanges with the woman.
Women find it cute and attractive when a man shows a sense of playfulness and creates a fun atmosphere.
If you both have inside jokes and you use them, even more perfect
Doing these things naturally creates a sense of closeness and affinity.
3. Dancing by himself or with her
Incase you ever wondered if a woman would want you to dance for or with her, let me tell you for free that she’ll love it.
When a man turns on some music and moves his body to the beat, whether or not he’s a great dancer, it can be both amusing and attractive to a woman.
You don’t have to be Usher to burst some moves on the dance floor.
And when you ask her to join you on the dance floor?
Even better.
The fun gets more exciting.
4. Having a fun personality
Women find men with fun personalities charming, so if you have a fun personality as a guy, it’s time to start using it well.
And even if you don’t necessarily have it, it can be learned.
When a man is cool and fun to be around, he attracts all kinds of people.
People are generally drawn to good vibes and that includes women.
A man who is an active listener and knows when to throw in the right comment and playful response, a man who knows how to initiate playful games, challenges, and so on.
Also, a man who springs up nice surprises and unexpected gestures such as planning a fun and creative hangout or date, bringing the woman her favorite treat, or sending unexpected random cute texts in the middle of the woman’s day.
Chivalrous gestures like offering her your coat when she’s cold (this one is personal to me because it’s one of the ways my man won my heart on one of our first meetings), holding the door open for her, and pulling out her chair aren’t left out.
These things seem small and playful but they are potent in making a woman fall helplessly for a man.
They demonstrate thoughtfulness and spontaneity and the thought of the efforts that go into it can be very charming.
5. Playful PDAs
Another playful thing men do that makes women adore them more is public display of affection.
That playful rub on her back, holding her hand, and leading the way as you both walk through a crowd of people, or giving her a peck as you both see a movie at the cinemas.
It could also be more expressive forms like standing on a tall building and screaming at the top of your voice “I LOVE (her name)”, planning a surprise in a public place to read her a romantic message while others watch and cheer, and etc.
Trust me, such things blow women’s minds.
You have to be sure she doesn’t hate PDAs first though.
6. Encouraging her playfulness
Being playful is great, but encouraging her playful side is another level of awesome.
When men can reach out to the child-like side of women and make them comfortable enough to express it with them, they uniquely touch that woman.
Bringing out the child in her and making her open enough to express that side of her is one way to charm a woman.
Especially for women who are not very much in touch with that side of themselves, encouraging her to let her guard down and open up her playful side can create a relaxed atmosphere and a more enjoyable relationship between you two.
6. Exaggerated complements
Thoughtful complements are wonderful, but another playful side to this that a lot of charming men use to rizz women up is flattery.
So you can tell a woman how intelligent she is or how her personality shines through and her style is unique, and you’ll brighten her day and make her feel appreciated.
But you can also say something like “The woman who got the medal for the most beautiful woman in the world would give anything to have half of your beauty”
That most likely is a lie but that’s what makes it more interesting, playful and funny.
The woman would most likely get the message that you’re trying to pass across but also like how you communicated it and she’ll feel your rizz.
Women like that.
7. Playing with kids
Some woman love it when they see men play with kids.
It makes them see the man like a sweet pure hearted and humble soul.
I’m sure you also may feel you can say a lot about a person by their attitude toward kids.
A man’s ability to play with kids, be gentle and tolerant with them, and have fun with them can be irresistibly attractive to a woman.
8. Singing
Whether the man has a great voice or not, women usually find it interesting and even appealing when a man sings, especially for them.
Personally, I love it when a guy plays an instrument like the guitar…. (winks), and if he goes further to compose a song specially for me, I’m sold!
So a man can playfully do a song for her and win her heart.
I’m letting you into all the secrets, and I’m sure you’re thanking me in your heart.
You’re welcome!
9. Winking from across the room
This is a quite special one and it can push so many beautiful buttons on the lady.
It works if there’s already an existing chemistry or familiarity between both parties.
Don’t go winking at random strangers or you risk being seen as a creep.
But if you like her and think she’s also checking you out, you can steal a wink at her from across the room.
Women find that irresistibly charming!
10. Playful touches
It could be touching her cheeks, stroking her hair, touching her nose, a high five, a special friends handshake etc.
Playful touches are very cute and women find it attractive when men do it.
Depending on your relationship with her, you can explore different playful touches.
It creates a sense of connection and bond.
11. Calling randomly only to say I LOVE YOU
When a man calls a woman and she’s probably expecting him to say something or have a conversation but he says, “I just called to say I love you”, that woman won’t forget that in a hurry.
It’s something that many finished men (a Nigerian slang for a man who is head over heels in love with his woman) do and it can make the women become finished women too.
It’s cute, playful, fun, and exciting.
It makes the woman know that the man is mindful of her and cares about her.
12. Surprises
Surprises are amazing, but when they come with a fun and playful side, they’re even more exciting.
For instance, when a man creates a gift surprise trail that leads the woman to where the ultimate surprise is, that is heartwarming.
The ultimate surprise may just be a rose and a note that has the words “YOU HAVE MY HEART BABE….” but it’ll mean more to her than some more expensive gifts.
The surprise could also have a sprinkle of PDA to it like suddenly appreciating her by name in the presence of a crowd or your friends and family, sending her a jar that has notes and chocolates for each day in the month until it’s her birthday, and so on.
These things seem small and playful but they are grand in the heart of the recipients and mean a whole lot.
13. Playful games and fights
Playful fights are part of the playful things women find irresistibly charming.
Hide and seeks are not only for children, adults can play and enjoy them too.
Playing tag, cat fights, pillow fights, and more!
Personally I love a guy who can play.
I know someone who plays pretend fights at home with her husband and of course the kids join them and they form a team against him.
Now, that’s fun for the whole family, and that’s charming!